Sweet Escaped : Sweetheart

I always find it fascinating how two different people able to blend so well inspite of all the differences. Just like relationship between man and woman, I always hear oldies even preacher and great speaker says that woman see things in a horizontal way while man they look at things on a parallel manner (laugh). But when love hit the two its really bulls eye! they just blend so well.

Its fascinating also how relationship works. Just like yours! Your strength become his and vice versa. Its like he or she just simply completes you. Its not about how close you are in distance and all the blah blah its about how close and connected you are in emotion, in everything and that is inseparable.

In chemistry we use filter paper to filter some components or object of the chemicals that can be distractive during the process of chemical reaction what Im trying to point out here is that the same also in relationship that is separated by distance its like being filtrated, but in here - destructiveness comes in therefore increase of anxiety level but this picture show of not enough trust isn't it? The logic is don't after with the looks of the person and make it as primary reason of giving yourœ"yes" and let the real reason be secondary.

Your relationship with the person then will not stay long, for relationship will be tested in every area that's why it's important you give time knowing the person for to unveil that beauty of who really he or she is inside, what are his thoughts what are the things he cared about what are his worries. I always hear this

"you have to read the bible for you to know and love God more, cause through
reading his word you'll come to know what he cares about and what's inside His
heart."

Well, this make sense also in relationship between man and woman try to relate it, pause for a lil' while. Isn't it? I remember my mentor shared to me once she said

"I miss him dang and I find it amazing that the more we are separated by distance
the more we get stronger"

this statement from her gave me a realization that "

distance is not a reason for the relationship not to work"

. Oh well! Everybody has their own story to tell and I have mine too (giggles) everyone has their own perception and description of relationship (laugh) I asked my Besy once how does he see relationship (I asked him because I find it important also knowing his thoughts about it.) I should say that it's important to know so that

"two person can blend well".

He said...

"but honey... there are times that you do demand a lot from a relationship
whether a best friend or partner girlfriend /boyfriend­ it should be the
person you rely on in times of trouble that i also what a relationship is for
cause relationships have trust as their foundation the more you trust... the
stronger the relationship and the more open and close it will be. Relationships
are about exposing part of ourself/ personality/­values/­beliefs to
another person the more we trust...the more likely we can be open without
feeling vulnerable"

After hearing him (smile) there are areas in how I perceive relationship has been corrected. Why I say corrected? Because he is a man and there are things that he sees that I don't see that I have to know and acknowledge and that will make sense. Isn't it? It's a matter of a give and take.