what we should know

Not all of us will be lucky finding someone… someone that will love us the way that we wanted to, sometimes in loving we mostly always end up with tears broken heart and fears. well, that’s the very common problem nowadays, but who do you think should be blame? partly it’s girls fault, they easily listen and swoon. ohh come on! there’s no one to blame honestly, for it always takes two to tango. Right? How would you describe love nowadays? actually nothing change it’s the “people” who changed. Well, in man’s journey everything is on a one set of package; the laughter, love, pain, hurt, and fears, but when you face these you must be ready to embrace all, don’t just embrace joy for you will never live your life with joy alone.

Yes! sometimes we wonder why do a person have to cry because of love, we cry beacause when we love, it’s the heart that is involve, and when we speak of the heart it also means our life. And there are times also that we quetioned

” is it in loving we find our being? or is it being with someone who is special to us will mean everything?"

well, my answare to that is,

” it is not in loving someone we find our being but it’s through knowing what love really mean we will find who we are and, being with the person you truely love will mean everything."

Another, In a relationship, we should not expect that in every relationship that we are having will last, because if you expect you’ll just disappoint yourself. sometimes we have to meet few wrong people for us to know how to take good care of the right one. but sometimes when somebody hurt us the tendecy would be, we easily give up and don’t want to try again, we refuse. but it is through painful circumstances we grow, through the tears that have flown down from our eyes we start to rise up and build a brave spirit within. circumstances help us realize, understand and allow us to see the things which we are not able to see before. everyone must know the art of valuing a relationship, love is not enough for you to have a good relationship for relationship is accompanied with great effort to maintain it’s passion. Another is love, when we speak of love it’s not what we thought it is, that it will easily fade, certainly love is not like that! love corrects wrong, it teaches you to do the right thing and the right act, in other words you develop the right character. love teaches you to be wise, not to be dumb and stupid. but what we thought love really is far different now. nowadays when you asked someone what is love it became to shallow, the word love lose it’s real essence, just because lips have met it doesn’t mean heart have joined and just because two bodies are drawn to each other doesn’t mean two people are right for each other. Love is a gift that God freely gave to his people a very free act to do, but very difficult ion the sense that now many don’t believe on it and don’t want to face its challenge. love only challenge us how to be pure in our motives and intenxons:) to be trueto others love is the art of valuing a promise, commitment. Don’t go with the looks.. honestly i don’t know how love start, one thing i know love make a man’s life exist…

C a p t i v a t i n g

Every woman was once a little girl. and every little girl holds in her heart her most precious dreams. She longs to be swept up into a romance, play an irreplaceble role in a great adventure, to be the beauty of the story. Those desires are far more than child's play. They are the secret of the feminine heart.And yet-- how many women do you know who ever find that life? As years past by, the heart of a woman gets pushed aside, wounded, burried. She finds no romance except in novels, no adventure except on television, and she doubts very much that she will ever be the Beauty in any tale.Most women think they have to settle for a life of effeciency and duty,, chores and errands, striving to be the women they "ought" to be often feeling failed. But her heart is still there. Sometimes when she watches a movie, sometimes in the wee hours of night, her heart begins to speak again. A thirst rises within her to find the life she meant to live-- the life she dreamed of as alittle girl...

" On the inside women loose themselves in a fantsy world or in a cheap novels, or we give ourselves over food or some other addiction to numb the ache of our hearts. But your heart is still there, crying out to be set free, to find the life your desires to tell you of". Every women should be treated the way they should be... men should know the value of a women. But sadly men nowadays fail to know the worth and the value of a woman... yeah.. not all do, but most men they don't know.

- from the book Captivating

but even though... might be somehow ^_^ or whatever!! (giggles) i know every man are great, in their own simple and unique ways.

Let go and let God

Sometimes the best thing people who love us can do is to let go and let God. Sometimes we’re glad of the space, the opportunity to grow up, to prove ourselves and make our own way. Sometimes we wish they would step in and take away the problems so we don’t have to face them.

To let go doesn’t mean to stop caring, it just means you can’t do it for someone else. To let go is not to cut yourself off from those you love, it’s the realization that you don’t control them. To let go is not to try and change yourself. To let go is not to judge, but to allow another to be human being. To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes, but to allow the other to make their own outcomes.

To let go is not to deny, but to accept. To let go is not to nag or argue. But to search out your own shortcomings and correct them. To let go is not to criticize and boss anyone around, but to try to become what you dream you can be. To let go is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future. To let go is to fear less and love more. To let go is to let God.