Y O U :)

It's best to be with a person where you can simply be yourself, where you are free to talk and laugh in any form lol (giggles), not worrying of anythin' to say or ask about, someone you can call a friend and you know what? A friend told me once, that the best to be with into a relationship is the one whom you can consider your friend and a best friend too... the logic of this is, "that person understand you and there's nothing you can do to make him or her love you less... : ) yeah there is small fights and conflicts but i don't think those are valid reason for love to grow less, actually it's a choice and those i stated i should say those were just part of and natural to what we call adjusting to both differences

Relationship is not what others thought as it is, it's quite complex (laugh" never experience but i know it is) that's why both should know each other and learn to understand each others differences.. Love is not just all bout sweet things and all that roses stuff there are tough and rough times too, wherein that love will be tested... but great love stays and it always takes two to tango.

Go for the person who can bring out the best in you (smile) than the one who bring you down, be with someone who can uplift you instead of discouraging you... someone where you can just simply pour out your heart. Actually there is no standards to set or to be followed when you love, because if you do you will be disappointed because in loving there is no logic on it and sometimes its best not to ask of too much WHY's for you can never get the exact answer it will just make you more confused anyways not all question should be answered, there are times wherein it's better for words to be left unsaid..

just simply trust him and love him more : )

what we should know

Not all of us will be lucky finding someone… someone that will love us the way that we wanted to, sometimes in loving we mostly always end up with tears broken heart and fears. well, that’s the very common problem nowadays, but who do you think should be blame? partly it’s girls fault, they easily listen and swoon. ohh come on! there’s no one to blame honestly, for it always takes two to tango. Right? How would you describe love nowadays? actually nothing change it’s the “people” who changed. Well, in man’s journey everything is on a one set of package; the laughter, love, pain, hurt, and fears, but when you face these you must be ready to embrace all, don’t just embrace joy for you will never live your life with joy alone.

Yes! sometimes we wonder why do a person have to cry because of love, we cry beacause when we love, it’s the heart that is involve, and when we speak of the heart it also means our life. And there are times also that we quetioned

” is it in loving we find our being? or is it being with someone who is special to us will mean everything?"

well, my answare to that is,

” it is not in loving someone we find our being but it’s through knowing what love really mean we will find who we are and, being with the person you truely love will mean everything."

Another, In a relationship, we should not expect that in every relationship that we are having will last, because if you expect you’ll just disappoint yourself. sometimes we have to meet few wrong people for us to know how to take good care of the right one. but sometimes when somebody hurt us the tendecy would be, we easily give up and don’t want to try again, we refuse. but it is through painful circumstances we grow, through the tears that have flown down from our eyes we start to rise up and build a brave spirit within. circumstances help us realize, understand and allow us to see the things which we are not able to see before. everyone must know the art of valuing a relationship, love is not enough for you to have a good relationship for relationship is accompanied with great effort to maintain it’s passion. Another is love, when we speak of love it’s not what we thought it is, that it will easily fade, certainly love is not like that! love corrects wrong, it teaches you to do the right thing and the right act, in other words you develop the right character. love teaches you to be wise, not to be dumb and stupid. but what we thought love really is far different now. nowadays when you asked someone what is love it became to shallow, the word love lose it’s real essence, just because lips have met it doesn’t mean heart have joined and just because two bodies are drawn to each other doesn’t mean two people are right for each other. Love is a gift that God freely gave to his people a very free act to do, but very difficult ion the sense that now many don’t believe on it and don’t want to face its challenge. love only challenge us how to be pure in our motives and intenxons:) to be trueto others love is the art of valuing a promise, commitment. Don’t go with the looks.. honestly i don’t know how love start, one thing i know love make a man’s life exist…

C a p t i v a t i n g

Every woman was once a little girl. and every little girl holds in her heart her most precious dreams. She longs to be swept up into a romance, play an irreplaceble role in a great adventure, to be the beauty of the story. Those desires are far more than child's play. They are the secret of the feminine heart.And yet-- how many women do you know who ever find that life? As years past by, the heart of a woman gets pushed aside, wounded, burried. She finds no romance except in novels, no adventure except on television, and she doubts very much that she will ever be the Beauty in any tale.Most women think they have to settle for a life of effeciency and duty,, chores and errands, striving to be the women they "ought" to be often feeling failed. But her heart is still there. Sometimes when she watches a movie, sometimes in the wee hours of night, her heart begins to speak again. A thirst rises within her to find the life she meant to live-- the life she dreamed of as alittle girl...

" On the inside women loose themselves in a fantsy world or in a cheap novels, or we give ourselves over food or some other addiction to numb the ache of our hearts. But your heart is still there, crying out to be set free, to find the life your desires to tell you of". Every women should be treated the way they should be... men should know the value of a women. But sadly men nowadays fail to know the worth and the value of a woman... yeah.. not all do, but most men they don't know.

- from the book Captivating

but even though... might be somehow ^_^ or whatever!! (giggles) i know every man are great, in their own simple and unique ways.

Let go and let God

Sometimes the best thing people who love us can do is to let go and let God. Sometimes we’re glad of the space, the opportunity to grow up, to prove ourselves and make our own way. Sometimes we wish they would step in and take away the problems so we don’t have to face them.

To let go doesn’t mean to stop caring, it just means you can’t do it for someone else. To let go is not to cut yourself off from those you love, it’s the realization that you don’t control them. To let go is not to try and change yourself. To let go is not to judge, but to allow another to be human being. To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes, but to allow the other to make their own outcomes.

To let go is not to deny, but to accept. To let go is not to nag or argue. But to search out your own shortcomings and correct them. To let go is not to criticize and boss anyone around, but to try to become what you dream you can be. To let go is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future. To let go is to fear less and love more. To let go is to let God.

She said..

ooohh.. I took this pic early in the morning hehe after i had my jogging, anyways this bear (giggles) his name is "babri" isn't he lovely? (laugh) please don't get me wrong to this i'm no longer a kid( laugh i'm 19 wink bleeh) it just that his all that i got to hug... lol

okay okay.. let's talk somethin' this one is from a friend Love's point of view, she said...

There is no disguise which can hide love for long where it exists, or simulate it where it does not. For most men the love of justice is only the fear of suffering injustice. Constancy in love is a perpetual inconstancy, in which the heart attaches itself successively to each of the lover's qualities, giving preference now to one, now to another. However rare true love may be, it is less so than true friendship. If we are to judge of love by the consequences, it more nearly resembles hatred than friendship.

One forgives to the degree that one loves. True love is like ghosts, which everybody talks about and few have seen. Courage is like love it must have hope for nourishment. To a person in love, the value of the individual is intuitively known. Love needs no logic for its mission. When we are in love we often doubt that which we most believe. The pleasure of love is in the loving and there is more joy in the passion one feels than in that which one inspires. Absence diminishes small loves and increases great ones, as the wind blows out the candle and blow up the bonfire. There are very few people who are not ashamed of having been in love when they no longer love each other.

If we judge of love by its usual effects, it resembles hatred more than friendship. It is with true love as it is with ghosts everyone talks about it, but few have seen it. All the passions make us commit faults love makes us commit the most ridiculous ones.