Not all of us will be lucky finding someone… someone that will love us the way that we wanted to, sometimes in loving we mostly always end up with tears broken heart and fears. well, that’s the very common problem nowadays, but who do you think should be blame? partly it’s girls fault, they easily listen and swoon. ohh come on! there’s no one to blame honestly, for it always takes two to tango. Right? How would you describe love nowadays? actually nothing change it’s the “people” who changed. Well, in man’s journey everything is on a one set of package; the laughter, love, pain, hurt, and fears, but when you face these you must be ready to embrace all, don’t just embrace joy for you will never live your life with joy alone.
Yes! sometimes we wonder why do a person have to cry because of love, we cry beacause when we love, it’s the heart that is involve, and when we speak of the heart it also means our life. And there are times also that we quetioned
” is it in loving we find our being? or is it being with someone who is special to us will mean everything?"
well, my answare to that is,
” it is not in loving someone we find our being but it’s through knowing what love really mean we will find who we are and, being with the person you truely love will mean everything."
Another, In a relationship, we should not expect that in every relationship that we are having will last, because if you expect you’ll just disappoint yourself. sometimes we have to meet few wrong people for us to know how to take good care of the right one. but sometimes when somebody hurt us the tendecy would be, we easily give up and don’t want to try again, we refuse. but it is through painful circumstances we grow, through the tears that have flown down from our eyes we start to rise up and build a brave spirit within. circumstances help us realize, understand and allow us to see the things which we are not able to see before. everyone must know the art of valuing a relationship, love is not enough for you to have a good relationship for relationship is accompanied with great effort to maintain it’s passion. Another is love, when we speak of love it’s not what we thought it is, that it will easily fade, certainly love is not like that! love corrects wrong, it teaches you to do the right thing and the right act, in other words you develop the right character. love teaches you to be wise, not to be dumb and stupid. but what we thought love really is far different now. nowadays when you asked someone what is love it became to shallow, the word love lose it’s real essence, just because lips have met it doesn’t mean heart have joined and just because two bodies are drawn to each other doesn’t mean two people are right for each other. Love is a gift that God freely gave to his people a very free act to do, but very difficult ion the sense that now many don’t believe on it and don’t want to face its challenge. love only challenge us how to be pure in our motives and intenxons:) to be trueto others love is the art of valuing a promise, commitment. Don’t go with the looks.. honestly i don’t know how love start, one thing i know love make a man’s life exist…
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